Fear of Success or Failure.
Many people are
driven by these two basic fears and often they are joined
confused and extremely limiting in our lives. Not only that
they also have negative results for those in our lives that
we clam to love and care about.
So what steps can you take to become clearer and congruent
on all levels of mind.
There will be a number of live links on this page as you
will need some background information as to the cause and
effect of this challenge as they are written they will
become active.
In my private practice in Leamington Spa Warwickshire I get
three types of people come to see me with this problem.
- They come will fear of failure.
- Fear of success
- They have both.
It is the clients who come realizing that they have both who are the most switched on. Often when I ask clients to go into the future and live there life filled with success for me and notice their lifestyle and the emotions that they are experiencing and to become aware of any “mind farts” if they exist.
They all tell me of feelings of unease, and feelings that they may not be able to handle it. Then usually come a long list of concerns, I may loose my friends and family. I wont know who to trust. I might loose it all and a host of other beliefs around how spiritual it is to be wealthy.
This is due to our past conditioning and how we were raised and trained around this subject. Our subconscious mind is telling us of real concerns that it has about this possible life that we consciously say we want to live.
So somewhere we have a host of negative connotations around success that unless we get rid of these or address them will mess with us and stop us from achieving our goals. Just think about it why would your control mind want to create a life that it and you are unfamiliar with and will cause you both pain that you at the moment do not know how to handle.
When you have a conflict between your conscious mind and your subconscious mind your subconscious will always win. The greatest drive is not for survival but to remain in a comfort zone, what is familiar to us. At a deep level we know that by remaining in this area of comfort we stand a much better chance of survival, as we have done this in the past.
Using the big four especially the fears recording will greatly help as these self hypnosis recordings will remove or allow you to be aware of the past limiting conditioning that you have.
So the first step is to become aware of your unconscious beliefs about wealth, success and address them. Often they are beliefs and ideas that are true to a younger you. So why allow a younger you control your life? Your inner child is not the best person to be running an adult, to be in control in a adult life yet it often is.
The next part of this article will deal with unconscious incongruence, self sabotage and mind farts.
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