I don’t want to look at it.
Often in peoples lives they will come across a situation that is painful or unwanted. It is often a common response and I have listened to it often.
“I just don’t want to look at it”
At least they are being honest but the problem is not usually a self repairable fault.
At best they will continue as they are with little changing in life. So what causes this?
Usually it is a lack of self knowledge and awareness of the drivers within them.
Some part of the control mind has other games to play and other goals to accomplish.
We have a case of unconscious incongruence often called self sabotage. You know what it is like you consciously desire an outcome and make a conscious decision to reach your goal and then your other mind fights you.
You might have decided to stop smoking and a week later discover that you are smoking twice as much and you somehow forgot the decision you made to quit. Some people who make the decision to become healthier and improve their lives wake up at two am in the kitchen after having eaten the cake they did not know they bought.
This is a real cool trick.
Just imagine what you could do when this part of you plays ball and decides to help you to achieve your goals.
Often when you decide to ignore a problem you know it is the wrong thing to do but your control mind decides to use emotional hijacking and then fills you with feelings of dread and makes it easer for you just not to bother.
A lack of maturity is also often involved if you have young children around you often see the same mental and emotional process at work.
They know they should do something like their homework or tidying up they know the consequences yet they still decide not to behave and the more often you allow them to get away with it the more you condition them in to the very behavioural problems that you seek to avoid.
Imagine what it is like for a subconscious mind that is basically lazy and wants things to go on as they are who has had forty years of not being controlled.Tens of thousands of times of knowing just do it you wont get punished.
If the person attempts to gain control I will just hijack their emotions and make them feel bad for a while and they will do as I want. They have no idea about controlling their motions. I know I can get away with it.
This tends to be what happens if you allow your inner child to run the show. Any one of the big four will allow you to begin a process of putting you more fully in control and begin the process of training your inner kid to behave in a way that you consciously desire.
So if you find yourself not wanting to look at it, your choice. But do you really want a kid to run your life?
Often in peoples lives they will come across a situation that is painful or unwanted. It is often a common response and I have listened to it often.
“I just don’t want to look at it”
At least they are being honest but the problem is not usually a self repairable fault.
At best they will continue as they are with little changing in life. So what causes this?
Usually it is a lack of self knowledge and awareness of the drivers within them.
Some part of the control mind has other games to play and other goals to accomplish.
We have a case of unconscious incongruence often called self sabotage. You know what it is like you consciously desire an outcome and make a conscious decision to reach your goal and then your other mind fights you.
You might have decided to stop smoking and a week later discover that you are smoking twice as much and you somehow forgot the decision you made to quit. Some people who make the decision to become healthier and improve their lives wake up at two am in the kitchen after having eaten the cake they did not know they bought.
This is a real cool trick.
Just imagine what you could do when this part of you plays ball and decides to help you to achieve your goals.
Often when you decide to ignore a problem you know it is the wrong thing to do but your control mind decides to use emotional hijacking and then fills you with feelings of dread and makes it easer for you just not to bother.
A lack of maturity is also often involved if you have young children around you often see the same mental and emotional process at work.
They know they should do something like their homework or tidying up they know the consequences yet they still decide not to behave and the more often you allow them to get away with it the more you condition them in to the very behavioural problems that you seek to avoid.
Imagine what it is like for a subconscious mind that is basically lazy and wants things to go on as they are who has had forty years of not being controlled.Tens of thousands of times of knowing just do it you wont get punished.
If the person attempts to gain control I will just hijack their emotions and make them feel bad for a while and they will do as I want. They have no idea about controlling their motions. I know I can get away with it.
This tends to be what happens if you allow your inner child to run the show. Any one of the big four will allow you to begin a process of putting you more fully in control and begin the process of training your inner kid to behave in a way that you consciously desire.
So if you find yourself not wanting to look at it, your choice. But do you really want a kid to run your life?